1. Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing? and your voice caught within your chest?
it isn't love, it's like.

2. You can't keep your hand off them, am I right?
it isn't love, it's lust

3. Are you proud and eager to show them off?
it isn't love, it's luck

4. Do you want them because you know they're there?
it isn't love, it's loneliness

5. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
it isn't love, its loyalty

6. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
it isn't love, its pity

7. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
it isn't love, it's lack of confidence

8. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
it isn't love, it's infatuation

9. Do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?
it isn't love, it's a lie

10. Are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their sake?
it isn't love, it's charity

11. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
it isn't love, it's friendship

12. Do you accept their faults because it's part of who they are?
then it's love

13. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
then it's love

14. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply, it hurts?
then it's love

15. Do you stay because a blinding incomprehensible mix of pain, and elations pulls you close and hold you?
then it's love

16. Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with no regrets?
then it's love

17. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
then it's love

18. And always remember - love isn't one sided!! - Both must love for LOVE to exist!

There is a big difference between 'Love' and 'Infatuation' . Some people can't tell the difference , thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation . Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another .
Love is friendship that has caught fire . It takes root and grows , one day at a time .


Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity . You are excited and eager , but not genuinely happy . There are nagging doubts , unanswered questions , little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely . It might spoil the dream.


Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection . It is real . It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved . You are warmed by their presence , even when they are away .
Miles do not separate you . You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying .
But near or far , you know they are yours , and you can wait .

Infatuation says , "We must get married right away . I can't risk losing them ."
Love says , "Be patient . Don't panic . Plan your future with confidence ."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement . Whenever you are together , you hope it will end in intimacy .
Love is not based on sex . It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter . You must be friends before you can be lovers .

Infatuation lacks confidence . When they're away , you wonder if they're cheating . Sometimes , you check .
Love means trust . You are calm , secure and unthreatened . They feel your trust , and it makes them even more trustworthy .

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret , but love never steers you in the wrong direction .

Love is an upper . It makes you feel whole . It completes the circle . It fills the empty space in your heart .
Love is elevating . It lifts you up . It makes you look up . It makes you think up .
It makes you a better person than you were before . If you have love in your life , it can make up for a great many things you don't have . If there is no love in your life , whatever else there is has a lot less meaning . The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for .


INFATUATION
Infatuation is a feeling ; real love involves a commitment also . Infatuation is just love of emotion . Real love , though , is love of devotion . Only the emotions are affected in infatuation , but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved . Next , a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love .
Guys , have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint ?
This is infatuation ! It is based totally on physical attraction . often you don't know much in - depth about the person you so - called love . Thus , infatuation is mostly biological . Also remember , never tell a girl you love her , unless you are willing to marry her .
Then , infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless .Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person .

Real love is primarily interested in the other person . It seeks to give instead of get . . Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person .

Lastly , infatuation is weakened by time and separation where REAL LOVE is strengthened by time and separation .
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation . On the contrary , there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love .


LOVE
Now you know what is infatuation , we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love . Love is patient . The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations .
When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out , if you truly love her , you will not complain and blame her , you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out . You must react to it with patience and understanding .
Next , have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster ? Sure you have ! Love , however , is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace .
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties .
Love is Kind
Love seeks to encourage and build up others . It respects the feelings and emotions of others . .
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy .
You can do the following :
1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards .
2. Compliment one another . Magnify the other party's strength .
3. Listen to one another . Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important .
4. Treat one another special in public . Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others .
5. Love is Not Jealous . Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart . Love wants the best for others , but jealousy is possessive . Jealous is reflected in the childish statement , "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often , one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others .
6. Love is not about bragging . Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress . Often a guy will brag to a girl , trying to impress her so that she will like him . A truly great person , however , does not need to exalt himself ! Others will exalt him .
7. Love is Not Arrogant . Love is not conceited , boastful ,cocky , or stuck-up . Love , instead , is humble and has a servant attitude . Sometimes , a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude . His demeanour implies , "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you ." Of course , this is not love.
8. Love always covers . This word cover means to pass over in silence , to keep confidential .
9. Love is patient with the faults of others . It doesn't criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others .
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect .
10. Love always Perseveres . Love always stands its ground and hold out . It will outlast anything . It will even love in the face of unrequited love . Real love will last though all sorts of trials , tribulations and stresses .
11. Love is Not Provoked . This means that love has a long fuse . It does not become irritated and angry . It is not easily offended .
12. Love does not seek its own . This is the heart of love . Love is other-centred rather than self- centred . Love says , "I love you , I want to give to you ." Selfishness says , "I love you , I want you !"
13. Love does not act unbecomingly . This means that love does not behave disgracefully , dishonourably or indecently . It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner . Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl , or offering her your arm when you walk together .
14. Lastly , Love is forgiving . This is a MUST for a successful love story . If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late , he is not exhibiting love . Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been
wronged . It doesn't remain resentful.
** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **

Girl : Do you really love me ?
Boy : Of course I do .
Girl : I wanna hear you say it .
Boy : I don’t have to .
Girl : Why not ?
Boy : Because . . .
Girl : I just want to hear you say it in words .
Boy : I can’t . . .
The girl started to cry softly and said :
Then you don't love me . The two continued to walk in silence . They
reached the girls home .
Girl : Why ?
Boy : Do you really want to know ?
Girl : (hesitantly) Yes .
He hugged her gently , kissed the tip of her nose
and whispered in her ear ,







"Because three words are not enough..."

This is a loveletter from a boy to a girl.... However, the girl's father does not like him and want them stop their relationship......and so..the boy wrote this letter to the girl..he knows that the girl's father will definitely read this letter..


1 "The great love that I have for you
2 is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3 grows every day. When I see you,
4 I do not even like your face;
5 the one thing that I want to do is to
6 look at other girls. I never wanted to
7 marry you. Our last conversation
8 was very boring and has not
9 made me look forward to seeing you again.
10 You think only of yourself.
11 If we were married, I know that I would find
12 life very difficult, and I would have no
13 pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14 to give, but it is not something that
15 I want to give to you. No one is more
16 foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17 able to care for me and help me.
18 I sincerely want you to understand that
19 I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20 if you think this is the end. Do not try
21 to answer this. Your letters are full of
22 things that do not interest me. You have no
23 true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
24 I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25 I am still your boyfriend."


How MEAN !! :( However, before handing over the letter to the girl, the boy told the girl to "READ BETWEEN THE LINES", meaning-only to read 1.3.5.7.9.11.13.15.17.19.21.23.25. (Odd Numbers) So..Please try reading it again! It's so sweet.... :)

                A girl in love asked her boyfriend.
.....................
Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?
Boy: You, of course!
Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life, you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart."
...................................
          After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.
However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems, their life became mundane.
All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated.
One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house. At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!"
The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"
Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while. He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.
Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go." She continued, "It is less painful this way. Let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners."

Five years went by...

         He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly. She had left the country and back. She had married a foreigner and divorced. He felt anguished that she never waited for him.
In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.
One day, they finally met. At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good byes. He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.
.........................
Boy: How are you?
Girl: I'm fine. How about you? Have you found your missing rib?
Boy: No.
Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.
Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back. You know my number. Nothing has changed.
With a smile, she turned around and waved good bye.
Good bye...
......................
One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York, in the event that shocked the world.
Midnight, once again, he lit his cigarette. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart. He finally knew. She was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken.

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"From now on , don't u ever call me 'baby' Amir ! Kita break !" . .
                 Itulah ungkapan mulut Fieza scara tiba2 kpd ku . Aku terkejut . "But why baby ? What happened to you ? What did i do wrong ?" kataku dgn nada sebak . "Da la ! Aku xthn dgn prangai kau ! Aku dah ada yg lain ! Berjuta kali baik dr engkau !" Dya menamparku dan terus pergi . Fieza . . Apa salahku ? Sejak akhir2 ini perangai kau berubah . . Dah 6 tahun kita bersama . . Kau xmcm Fieza yg ku kenal dulu . . Fieza yg ceria . . Kini sering memarahiku , memaki hamunku .
                Tapi . Mengapa ? Aku mahukn Fieza yg dlu . Aku mahukn Fieza yg ceria , yg manja . Siapa ? Siapakah lelaki yg dimaksudkn Fieza td ? Tiba2 . . . Dushh ! Satu penumbuk hinggap di muka ku . . Huh ? Siapa . . Aku mmbuka mataku sambil menahan kesakitan . . Huhhh ? Aku xpercaya ! Fazrul ! Kenapa ? "Next time , jgn ganggu awek org . " katanya . . APAA ????? "Tapi . ." Dushh ! "Arghh !" penendang pula sampai dibadanku . Mengapa ? Fazrul ? Kawan baik ku sndiri ? Dya sanggup merampas Fieza dr aku ? Mengapa ? Dya lah kawan yg paling baik pernah ku ada . Mengapa dya sanggup merampas Fieza ?   "Geng . Blasah dya" . Huhh ? Apa ? "Arghhh !" Sakit ! Aku ditumbuk , ditendang , ditampar . "Dah . " kata Fazrul . "Anggap ni sbg warning . Jgn ganggu Fieza dah ! Dya skrg milik aku ! " . . Aku terasa . . Sprt . . Hendak menangis . . Kenapa ? Kenapa dya ? Fazrul ? Fieza ? Orang yg paling ku syg ?
             Beberapa minggu selepas kejadian . Aku mengambil keputusan utk ronda2 di Sunway Carnival . . Aku mnghntr msg kpd Fazrul yg aku hendak kesana . . ALAMAK ! Knapa aku msg dya ? Kan lagi sng klu aku x msg dya ? Aku berharap . Dya sedang tidur atau dya sedang off phone nya . . Semasa di sana . . Aku ternampak . . Fieza dan Fazrul . . Berdua-duaan . . Fieza nmpk mcm bahagia sgt2 . . . Kemudian . . Fazrul . . Memeluk pinggang Fieza . . Dan Fieza meletakkn kepalanya di atas bahu Fazrul . . Bahagianya Fieza sekarang . Aku menahan sebak . . Flashback bermula . . Memori indahku bersama Fieza diputarkn semula . . Aku hanya mampu melihat mereka bahagia sekarang . . Sedihnya . . Aku membuat keputusan utk ke panggung wayang . . Biar tenang ckit hatiku . . Aku mmbeli tiket utk sorg utk cerita 'The Sorcerer's Apprentice' . . Aku mmbeli popcorn dn air coke smntara menunggu cerita brmula . Selepas mmbayar , aku terus masuk ke dalam cinema . . Aku mengambil seat tengah . . Nampak ckit . . Kemudian . . Sepasang kekasih duduk di depan seat aku . . Macam ku kenal . . Ya , Fieza dn Fazrul . . Sedarkah mereka yg aku berada di sini ? Aku cemburu sgt2 dgn kebahagiaan mereka . . Semasa wayang bermula . . Mataku langsung tidak memandang cerita yg dimainkn .  Aku hanya melihat mereka yg berada di dpn ku . . Fazrul memeluk Fieza . . Main rambut Fieza . . Fieza . . Igt xdulu ? Kita pun selalu mcmtu kn ? Aku terasa seperti hendak menangis . . Aku hanya mampu menahan . .
              Selepas wayang habis , aku pulang ke rumah . . Aku xtaw hantu mana yg merasukku ketika itu . Aku mengamuk . Habis semua brg dlm bilikku bersepah . Cermin , lampu meja , perfume , semua ku hancurkn . . Tapi . . Apa ni ? Aku mngangkat frame gambar tersebut . . Aku tgk gmbr tu . . Sepasang kekasih , latar belakangnya di tasik  . . Cantik sgt2 . . Aku mngalihkn gambar tersebut dr bingkai , di belakang gmbr tersebut . . Tertulis sesuatu . . ' I love you forever , <3 Fieza ' . Aku menangis . Aku hanya mampu menangis . . Aku terduduk di atas katil . Menangis , sampai aku tertidur . .
              Keesokan harinya , ketika ku sedang meronda . . Tiba2 , 'Nightmare ~ Now your nightmare comes to life ~' Phone aku berbunyi . . Tertera nama disitu . . FAZRUL . . Nak angkat ke tidak ? Angkat ? Angkatlah . .
.......................
Aku : Hello ?
Fazrul : Mir , kau kena cpt Mir .
Aku : Knapa ni Fazrul ?
Fazrul : Kau kena cpt . Hospital Pantai . Fieza makin tenat . .
Aku : Huh ? Tenat ? Tenat apa ?
Fazrul : Datang ja . Kt ICU . Aku tunggu . Fieza asyik panggil nama kau . Cepat lah .
Aku : Okay2 . Aku datang .
.......................
              Fieza ? Dya asyik sebut nama aku ? Xpercaya aku . . Fieza tenat ? Timbul plbagai soalan di kpala ku . . Baru smlm aku tgk Fazrul n Fieza berdua . . Fieza nmpk mcm okay . . Knapa harini ? Diorg nk kelentong aku je ke ? Ahh , tu semua xpnting . Aku terus mmecutkn kereta ke Hospital Pantai . . Aku berlari ke ICU . . Faz . . FAZRUL ! Dya betul2 ada kt sini ! Aku berjalan ke arah ICU . . Fazrul menahan aku . . Dya mmberiku sesuatu . . Cincin . . Cincin Fieza . . Kemudian dya brbisik . . "Fieza sygkn kau . . Dya xsygkn aku . . Semua nie lakonan ja . . Fieza saja nk buat kau sakit hati . . Bagi kau lupakn dya terus . . Fieza sakit . . Selama ini Fieza bertarung dgn cancer otak . . Dya tak mahu kau tau . . Sbb tu dya putuskn hubungan dgn kau . . . . Apabila keadaannya semakin parah . . . Dya mntk tolong aku nk buat kau jeles . . Time kt Sunway tu . . Aku dapat msg kau . . Aku ikot kau spnjg kt Sunway . . Sbb tu kami ada dimna ja kau pergi . . Fieza nk buat kau sakit hati . . Dya xnk kau sedih bila dya dh xda nnt . . Aku xsanggup tgk kau merana . . Jd . . Aku bgtau la bnda yg betul . . Maafkn aku . . Maafkn Fieza . . Dya masih sygkn kau . ."
           FIEZAAAAAAAAAA ! Aku menjerit dlm hati ! Aku xthn ! Kenapa Fieza ? Kenapa kau xbgtau aku awal2 ? Aku menangis semahu2nya . . Kenapa ? Kenapa Fieza ? Lidahku kelu . . Aku xmampu brbicara . . Aku hanya mampu menangis . .
         3 jam berlalu . . Doctor pun keluar dr ICU . . Dya dan beberapa org pmbantu menyorong jasad Fieza keluar . . Aku kelu . . Aku pergi ke arah Fieza . . Aku memegang tgnnya . . Aku mengucup dahinya . . Aku menangis . . Aku brbisik kpdnya . . "Mulianya hati baby . . Sbb baby xnk tgk syg sedih . . Baby sanggup buat mcmni . . Terima kasih , baby . ." aku mmbelai rambutnya . . Memeluknya erat . . Kemudian doctor brkata kpda ku . . "Sabar ye . . Cik Fieza ada suruh pesan . . Dya suruh ckp . . 'Happy anniversary . . Baby sygkn syg . . I know u'll come . . Thank you for loving me . .' . ." aku menangis lagi . . Fieza . . Kau satu2nya yg aku syg . . Aku xmungkin akn pernah lupakn engkau . . Memori kita brsama . . Kau tetap akn ada di dlm hatiku . . Thank you , Baby . I love you .



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